Re: Off-Topic Garden Café

by BigBoban Mon Jul 16, 2012 10:20 am

IrasMaldinista wrote:Say, boys, can you recommend some singers, bands etc. whose music really sucks you in the atmosphere?

I mean like Anathema. Their songs create this wave around you.

Or Chris De Burgh, as he's probably the best story teller around among singers.

I also like Yanni.

So, can any of you introduce the kind of riveting stuff I'm looking for?

Buddy when your depressed only "Band of Horses - The Funeral" can fit the bill and make your mood even more sombre

by milanfan7 Mon Jul 16, 2012 10:55 am

IrasMaldinista wrote:Say, boys, can you recommend some singers, bands etc. whose music really sucks you in the atmosphere?

I mean like Anathema. Their songs create this wave around you.

Or Chris De Burgh, as he's probably the best story teller around among singers.

I also like Yanni.

So, can any of you introduce the kind of riveting stuff I'm looking for?

Frank Sinatra.

@Dante: mate you don't have to leave,just take a break,till the season starts or something. I also lost passion for posting,but I always lurk around,waiting for a chance to spark fire with non-milan fans.

by BigBoban Mon Jul 16, 2012 11:47 am

Dante I would love to have a drink with you one day, Ouzo or red wine, talk about life, love and everything inbetween, but especially about Milan. i'm sorry for not being as active as I should have been, life's just been so hectic in the last 12months.

Losing Dante is like Milan losing one of our Senators, truly a gentleman and always having an opinion to share but always there to defend our club. I'm sure you will be sorely missed. Forza Dante

by Eivindo Mon Jul 16, 2012 6:03 pm

dante will become a lurker, stop him!

by CBarca Wed Jul 18, 2012 5:23 am

Sad to see you leave, Dante. I hope you don't leave completely. Check back every once in a while.

Good luck in life, I think a lot of people will miss you, you're one of the more quality posters around, something I think this forum lacks sometimes.

by Kaladin Wed Jul 18, 2012 3:08 pm

Man im feeling so gutted after the sale of TS and Ibra.

Gotten this abnormal depression since.

I've monitored TS since he joined the club, and turned out to be an idol for me.

As for Ibra's case, i've watched him with my brother since his Juventus days and he's always pleasing to the eye, a Seria A legend.

I haven't gotten this sad since Maldini's departure, i don't whats hitting the head, but i feel bummed out for some reason..

And the departure of the "Old Guard" also took a strike at my heart..

And reports emerging that Cassano wants to leave? This is really a hard time to be a Milan fan

I just hope that we can restructure our team with players that last and youth.

I hope we don't go back to the dark ages of Milan...

Sorry about my pessimistic post, but i really feel like i can unwind here and you guys are really helpful and outstanding posters, i hope we can persevers as Milan fans.
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On another note sorry to see you leave Dante, although i don't know you, i've lurked enough to know that your an amazing person and really there for the fans when they need you. Sad to see you leave, i hope you change your mind.

by Rossoneri Ninja Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:25 am

Everybody is bummed out, some of us took it harder than others, but that feeling will pass ( hopefully).

Dante i think what you're doing is unfair, you wish to know me but then decide to leave the forums before doing so Sad

We've been with the forums for years now, and that made me hold you opinion on matters in higher regard ( no disrespect intended to fellow milansti on here), we've both been through it all before and discussed many things.

I understand the way you might feel about the forums most of us do, i haven't posted in weeks. We don't always have to talk about Milan in this section. Anyways i really hope to see you post again.

by Forza Fri Jul 20, 2012 6:41 am

back from my trip to italy today! san siro was great btw

by BiasedMilanFan3 Fri Jul 20, 2012 11:05 am

Oi Forza, Dante left btw

by Ganso Fri Jul 20, 2012 12:33 pm

Oi forza,Dante,Thiago and Ibra left us

by BiasedMilanFan3 Fri Jul 20, 2012 2:09 pm

Them too

by Eivindo Fri Jul 20, 2012 6:07 pm

ye, nothing biggie:D

by Forza Sat Jul 21, 2012 7:32 am

wow. surprised dante is leaving. a great poster who I always held in high regard.

by IrasMaldinista Sun Jul 29, 2012 8:00 pm

It's all horseshit you know. Love and "The One" and magical moments shared between two lovers.

There is lie everywhere. Lies are floating in the air when lovers are making love. When they say I love you they are lying. Believe me they are.

I can assure you none of you have experienced the ecstasy I experienced. This is coming from a hurt, numb, and now a cynical guy who felt it to the bones. I felt it all and I'm telling you, it's horseshit.

Don't blame me.

Here is this guy, owning a fancy car, a great house, fantastic physique and a lovely wife, asking me if I could get him a place to take care of his mistress once or twice a week.

Right at this time, my best friend, whose beautiful, gentle, green-eyed girlfriend refuses to have sex with him until after marriage, is begging me to get him some action in a vacant room.
Give up your virginity girl. Let my boy deflower you.
So f***ing what?

I'm starting to have doubts about myself too! I know by now you're thinking this Iras guy is a pimp. Well, after some research I got to the conclusion that I ain't one.

It's just that my aunt is gone to Canada for a visit, and she won't be back until March 2013... And the golden key to the apartment? Well, it's here, in my pocket. It's right above us!!!

And my ex, who suddenly stopped calling me and answering my calls since April, doesn't know that every time I am tempted to get laid, her face appears right before my eyes and all my lust turns into tears.
It's bad. Depression is bad.

So, the rich guy, having been happily married for 7 years, tells me: "Look sonny, you provide the place, I provide the vagina and booze. Fair trade."

If it was the 2010 version of me hearing that offer, I would kiss the man on the lips and sign any paper he asked me to score some girls, but I transformed into a classic lover through and through around that time and the world meant nothing to me if she had no part in it.

Now, I don't give a shit. Watch the opening minutes of "Garden State" (2004) to understand what I'm talking about.

Today, if the 22-year-old Ingrid Bergman proposes to me on her knees, I will probably ask her what time is it and leave her in her misery.
That's how cold and numb I've become.

Numerous people have told me I should meet the next girl to have my wounds healed. Truth is I don't want any new wounds.
Yeah, let's leave it at that.
I'm OK. I'm unhassled. let me be.

I might cry on occasion, but I'm fine. I don't care. Why should I? I'm happy!
She's gone. She's gone. She's gone. She's...

by IrasMaldinista Mon Jul 30, 2012 1:39 am

I might have lost the ability to feel really excited about and dependent on somebody, the ability to love (temporarily, who knows?) but one thing hasn't changed in me: I'm still too nice with girls.

This was what made me fall, as veterans of relationships told me, and that I should've been more determined, serious and unforgiving.

Maybe, but listen.

This friend of mine, he fell in love with a British-Indian girl and experienced what he claims he will never feel in his life again. But the girl turned out to be an over-religious, over-controlling, over-emotional bitch and they broke up, as they say.

He is now with an angel, but an angel he's not in love with.

In one of their fights, my nice friend suddenly transformed into a Gozilla and told the poor thing all about his still-burning flame of love for that bitch, and that this angel will never give him the unique feelings and excitement that he experienced with that Indian girl.

It wasn't a fair fight, this poor cutie broke down and sobbed, as she didn't know just where the hell to escape to.

I heard this story, and I was amazed.
How could my buddy have done that? That son of a bitch crushed this innocent girl to prove what?
You don't want her, don't be with her, why all the asshole-ness?

I could never ever do that, unless the enemy tells me such stuff. Things like "He was better in bed." blah blah can't push me to my limits, I got proof.

But throughout my life I've always been TOO damn nice, my parents always told me to toughen up at certain situations but I was kind of afraid, it didn't FEEL right. I wasn't comfortable being strict and merciless.

Now I don't know, should I expect another defeat? I'm well now, at least I think I am. But what if someone else will take advantage of that?
Can't imagine going through what I did in the last three months.

I gotta tell you, sometimes being an asshole works wonders.
I've seen stuff you wouldn't believe.

It's the motto "Treat them like shit and they will be slaves for you."

Hell I can't. I don't need slaves, alright? I need a friend, a companion, a source of peace.

I need a co-pilot and I can't stand seeing her being treated like shit by anybody, including my glorious self.